Relax and Have Fun

After stressing about improv, healthy food, and other things in my life, I decided to make some changes, as I already explained in my Health Experiment post.  I made a choice to enjoy interacting with people more, to be kind and not worry about whether I am saying the right thing, or acting right, or looking good enough.
  Today as I focused on relaxing and having fun, I found myself doing better in improv.  Although I know I am still not very good, I was able to do it today without judging myself or analyzing every little thing.  I was able to have really have a good time in drama class, because I let myself relax and have fun.
  I also noticed that my ordinary interactions with people had more energy, I was less tense and reserved, and more able to make new friends and joke around.
  If you don't know me, I tend to be a quiet, calm person, not really the life of the party or a clown.  Even though I tend to be more closed off in groups, I really enjoy one on one conversations. I love talking to people and getting to know them.  I don't know if I fall into the category of being an introvert or an extrovert because I love being around people, I am just not super outgoing most of the time.

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